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The Mistake I Made at 44 (And What It Taught Me)

I did something eight years ago that two doctors advised against.

I insisted. They eventually gave in. And I got exactly what I asked for.

I’ve regretted it since.

Funny how that works! We chase a version of ourselves that isn’t here yet, only to discover that time was going

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The Rudest Thing People Do (And Don’t Even Notice)

Someone did it to me again recently.

Mid-conversation.

It’s the single most disrespectful thing people do today — and most of them have no idea they’re doing it.

I’ve started responding to it differently.

In this piece, I write about this habit, why it’s more serious than most

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I Was Warned Not To. I Did It Anyway. Here’s What Happened.

When I was considering taking on a new job, a well-meaning colleague pulled me aside.

“This arrangement doesn’t make sense. Think it through. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.”

He was confident. He was sincere. But he had no direct evidence.

I joined anyway.

Years later, I looked back on

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How a Chance Morning Visit Launched My Career

It’s thirty years since the morning that determined the shape of my career. And the person most responsible for it doesn’t know.

Because I never got the chance to tell him properly.

His name is Shekhar. In 1995-96, he worked at India Feature Service in Delhi and lived in Vasant

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