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The Day a River Taught Me to Trust My Gut

I had a gut feeling, and I ignored it.

Not because I was convinced otherwise, but because going along felt easier than holding my ground.

What follows is a story I’ve told a few times over the past eighteen years. It still makes people laugh.

It still makes

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Nothing Is Perfect. It’s How You Balance That Counts.

My wife Gargi and I spent hours arguing about floor tiles, kitchen counter, fixtures, furnishings, and colours while we were building our house.

Two people with different instincts, both convinced they were right.

Somewhere in that process, something clicked.

This week’s Nugget is about what I took away from building

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The Mistake I Made at 44 (And What It Taught Me)

I did something eight years ago that two doctors advised against.

I insisted. They eventually gave in. And I got exactly what I asked for.

I’ve regretted it since.

Funny how that works! We chase a version of ourselves that isn’t here yet, only to discover that time was going

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The Rudest Thing People Do (And Don’t Even Notice)

Someone did it to me again recently.

Mid-conversation.

It’s the single most disrespectful thing people do today — and most of them have no idea they’re doing it.

I’ve started responding to it differently.

In this piece, I write about this habit, why it’s more serious than most

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