I resigned at noon. Checked out by evening. And returned the next morning to complete a formality. What happened next stunned me.
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Your Voice, My Choice
How many of us sit, rewind and review our lives? They say the past is the past. But the learnings of our past IMHO are the most essential to our growth and development. Rajen Garabadu’s blog very carefully curates these themes. His style of slice of life stories both inspire and intrigue. They remind us to be grateful, to be cognisant and to live each moment in a wholesome manner. Read him and you will surely enrich your life.
I have known Rajen for nearly three decades now. But it's only of late that I have really come to know him. I knew he had a sense of sartorial humour and was candid. But that he was such a keen observer of people and had such deep insights was a revelation. What has been even more of a surprise, and I should add here, a very pleasant one at that, is his writing style. I read each of his ''Reflections'' with relish and then look forward to the next one. Between the column I have read and the one that I look forward to are reflections of mine on the insightful behaviours that he writes about. Indeed, it has become a learning journey that has made me ponder over the need for course correction in inter-personal behavior and discovery of facets of people I have known but whom I am only now getting to discover thanks to Rajen.
I have known Rajen for nearly three decades now. But it's only of late that I have really come to know him. I knew he had a sense of sartorial humour and was candid. But that he was such a keen observer of people and had such deep insights was a revelation. What has been even more of a surprise, and I should add here, a very pleasant one at that, is his writing style. I read each of his ''Reflections'' with relish and then look forward to the next one. Between the column I have read and the one that I look forward to are reflections of mine on the insightful behaviours that he writes about. Indeed, it has become a learning journey that has made me ponder over the need for course correction in inter-personal behavior and discovery of facets of people I have known but whom I am only now getting to discover thanks to Rajen.
I have known Rajen for nearly three decades now. But it's only of late that I have really come to know him. I knew he had a sense of sartorial humour and was candid. But that he was such a keen observer of people and had such deep insights was a revelation. What has been even more of a surprise, and I should add here, a very pleasant one at that, is his writing style. I read each of his ''Reflections'' with relish and then look forward to the next one. Between the column I have read and the one that I look forward to are reflections of mine on the insightful behaviours that he writes about. Indeed, it has become a learning journey that has made me ponder over the need for course correction in inter-personal behavior and discovery of facets of people I have known but whom I am only now getting to discover thanks to Rajen.
I have known Rajen for nearly three decades now. But it's only of late that I have really come to know him. I knew he had a sense of sartorial humour and was candid. But that he was such a keen observer of people and had such deep insights was a revelation. What has been even more of a surprise, and I should add here, a very pleasant one at that, is his writing style. I read each of his ''Reflections'' with relish and then look forward to the next one. Between the column I have read and the one that I look forward to are reflections of mine on the insightful behaviours that he writes about. Indeed, it has become a learning journey that has made me ponder over the need for course correction in inter-personal behavior and discovery of facets of people I have known but whom I am only now getting to discover thanks to Rajen.
Rajen has been my super senior from CNN-News18. The few words that we hardly exchanged over the seven years there were more about work. But the words that he had silently, consistently saved with him, created a powerful experience in the form of "NUGGETS FROM LIVED EXPERIENCES" - that began as a LinkedIn newsletter I religiously read and share among the like-minded; not because I admire his works as a my senior. But truly, because this man of few words, has poured his heart, soul, research, empathy, mind connections and power into these many words that arrive in my inbox as a weekly piece. Each story, straight like a bullet, no sensational drama, just pure empathy and real life resources. I recently told Rajen, he must craft a book out of these! Now that this is a full-fledged website, I am really excited because the NUGGETS will reach many more to inspire them.
The task is not to see what has never been seen before, but to think what has never been thought before about what you see everyday"
- Erwin Schrodinger
This is what Rajen does in his blog. Picks up everyday instances of lived experiences and presents a thought around them that is eye opening. I particularly remember a part of his writing when he mentioned two of his interactions with Mr V Krishnamurthy 4 years apart. And he said how the gentleman remembered his name. Rajen then presented a thought that changed my idea of relationships, he said Mr V Krishnamurthy remembered a young Rajen from a meeting 4 years ago not because Rajen was important or the person had a great memory. Mr Krishnamurthy remembered Rajen because he cared. I love reading his blogs for such invaluable insights. His interpretation of everyday interactions that can change the way we live life is something all of us can learn from.
- Erwin Schrodinger
This is what Rajen does in his blog. Picks up everyday instances of lived experiences and presents a thought around them that is eye opening. I particularly remember a part of his writing when he mentioned two of his interactions with Mr V Krishnamurthy 4 years apart. And he said how the gentleman remembered his name. Rajen then presented a thought that changed my idea of relationships, he said Mr V Krishnamurthy remembered a young Rajen from a meeting 4 years ago not because Rajen was important or the person had a great memory. Mr Krishnamurthy remembered Rajen because he cared. I love reading his blogs for such invaluable insights. His interpretation of everyday interactions that can change the way we live life is something all of us can learn from.
Director, Mahika Mishra Foundation
Rajen is one of the most humble leaders I’ve come across and his blog is an virtual extension of his personality. He is a captivating story-teller, and his anecdotes are always peppered with remarkable nuggets of wisdom. His conversational writing style further enhances the simplicity, making it a delight for the reader. I’ve always admired the way he shares some of the most vulnerable moments of his life, and how he went about navigating such ordeals. In a nutshell, if you like to read something that is simple, evocative, profound and packed with learnings backed by real experiences, following Rajen would be a no-brainer!
I find Rajen to be a highly sensitive and an observant individual and his writings very insightful.
He has a great ability to make regular instances & occurrences into an inspirational story that make for a simple and a wonderful read.
I write this piece with a sense of exhilaration … and more importantly, with a sense of privilege and pride. He is ever gracious in mentioning about the ‘break’ I gave him, but I consider it my serendipity that I got the opportunity to work with him and know him, albeit briefly, when he was in his early twenties.
It was only when I began to read his posts regularly that I felt that I was getting to know Rajen, the professional, the human and the writer. Initially, I was reading his posts casually but very soon, they began to grow on me, and leave a mark …the seemingly casual way of sharing anecdotes and experiences contain layers that are rich in meaning and perspectives.
In an almost no holds barred style, Rajen touches upon different facets of work, life and relationships…with his pen revealing his emotions and experiences, and sharing lessons learnt. His writing, which often includes a self-directed sense of humor, mirrors his passion and love for life, infused with honesty, gratefulness and a sense of being rooted.
Now on Saturday morning, I check if there is a notification on LinkedIn. A habit is now becoming an addiction!
Thanks to Nuggets from lived experiences, this is my second innings of knowing Rajen and what he is made of.
The beauty of #RajenReflects is it shows a mirror to the readers. Many a time we don’t realise the impact of our actions; we get to do once we face or read about such a situation. Rajen's reflections give the readers a way to course-correct how they live and do their jobs.
Your words of wisdom often come at such a right time in my personal journey! There are times I feel, you unknowingly mentor so many, including me. Sheer blessing. Gratitude 🙏
"Rajen has a natural curiosity and wisdom that shines through in his writing. If you're looking for a newsletter that provides real-depth instead of basic platitudes, Rajen Reflects is the place to go."
In 2005, inside a giant hall filled with strangers, a person walks up to me, smiles and says hi, I am Rajen. It broke the ice and warmed my heart. I realised he had spotted me looking a little lost, and cared enough to do something about it. Over the next 9 years, Rajen and I ended up working very closely on virtually every major news event, mega projects and channel launches.
The time spent with him confirmed my first impressions of Rajen being a highly competent, fair, empathetic and a sensitive leader. I also knew he was observant and had a satirical sense of humour that almost always made me laugh. I had read hundreds of mails and notes from him - all businesslike and to the point.
But it was only with Rajen Reflects, did I realise his real power of expression. I look forward to his honesty in writing. That's the one diminishing art form that so desperately needs a revival and Rajen's weekly columns keep my faith alive.
I love reading Rajen’s reflections. They are simple, to the point and always touches my heart. He is a great storyteller and his anecdotes bring to life everyday events that form a part of our professional life. These stories are full of empathy, kindness and teach us that before we call ourselves professionals, we are human beings. I look forward to his blog posts eagerly. Best wishes to Rajen and hope he continues to encourage and inspire us through his writings.
Rajen is a brilliant writer. I first got in touch with him when he was kind enough to point out mistakes in my own content and fix them. Since then, I've taken his help plenty of times to improve my work. I've read his articles and they're soulful - the right blend of personal stories with lessons that invoke emotion. Highly recommend him!
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When I was considering taking on a new job, a well-meaning colleague pulled me aside. "This arrangement doesn't make sense. Think it through. Don't say I didn't warn you." He was confident. He was sincere. But he had no direct evidence. I joined anyway. Years later, I looked back on that decision. Some lessons, you can only learn by crossing the bridge.
It's thirty years since the morning that determined the shape of my career. And the person most responsible for it doesn't know. Because I never got the chance to tell him properly. His name is Shekhar. In 1995-96, he worked at India Feature Service in Delhi and lived in Vasant Kunj. A year later, we lost touch. I've written it down here. If there's any chance this reaches him, I'm asking you to share it. As widely as you can. He deserves to read it.
There are people in your life you'd avoid if you could. You know exactly who I mean. For a long time, I did what most of us do. I showed up anyway. Kept the peace. Played the role. Of late, I've stopped doing that. If you've ever felt torn between who you are and what's expected of you — this one's for you.
There's a moment every parent dreads and secretly hopes for at the same time. The moment you realise your child has quietly outgrown your expectations. It happened to me this January, over breakfast, in a conversation I hadn't planned for.
There's a season in life when everyone needs you at once. Your parents. Your children. Your colleagues. Each with a legitimate claim on your time, your energy, your presence. And somewhere in the middle of all that giving, you disappear. Not dramatically. Quietly. You stop sleeping properly. Stop doing the things that restore you. Tell yourself it's temporary. It rarely is. I've been thinking about this stage — why it's the hardest, and what I've learned about surviving it without losing yourself in the process.
I stopped making new friends for nearly a decade. Not because I'd given up on people. But because I already had a close bunch, I couldn't do justice to them. Adding more felt dishonest. So I kept the door shut. Then, without planning it, two people walked into my life. And quietly, without fanfare, they changed my mind about keeping it closed. This is about them. And about what real friendship — the selective, deliberate kind — actually looks like.