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How a Chance Morning Visit Launched My Career

It’s thirty years since the morning that determined the shape of my career. And the person most responsible for it doesn’t know.

Because I never got the chance to tell him properly.

His name is Shekhar. In 1995-96, he worked at India Feature Service in Delhi and lived in Vasant Kunj. A year later, we lost touch.

I’ve written it down here.

If there’s any chance this reaches him, I’m asking you to share it. As widely as you can.

He deserves to read it.

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Why Middle Age is the Most Underestimated Chapter of a Human Life

There’s a season in life when everyone needs you at once.

Your parents. Your children. Your colleagues. Each with a legitimate claim on your time, your energy, your presence.

And somewhere in the middle of all that giving, you disappear.

Not dramatically. Quietly. You stop sleeping properly. Stop doing the things that restore you. Tell yourself it’s temporary.

It rarely is.

I’ve been thinking about this stage — why it’s the hardest, and what I’ve learned about surviving it without losing yourself in the process.

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Why I Stopped Making Friends for Nearly a Decade. And Then This Happened.

I stopped making new friends for nearly a decade.

Not because I’d given up on people. But because I already had a close bunch, I couldn’t do justice to them.

Adding more felt dishonest. So I kept the door shut.

Then, without planning it, two people walked into my life. And quietly, without fanfare, they changed my mind about keeping it closed.

This is about them. And about what real friendship — the selective, deliberate kind — actually looks like.

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The Kind of Success That Doesn’t Fade: My Person of the Year

We cheer centuries. We celebrate trophies. 

But every once in a while, a moment arrives that makes you pause and ask — is this what greatness really looks like?

This World Cup had one such moment for me: Quiet. Unscripted. Deeply human.

It didn’t stop there. In a few weeks, it resurfaced — In equal measure and power.

And changed the way I think about success, courage, and character.

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